Camming while you are in a relationship is a tricky pouch of puckered assholes. It’s one thing to be single and independent and no one to answer to. It’s a completely different experience to get on cam every day and have thousands of people wanking to your image while you diddle your bits and then have to explain or even rationalize to another person who may or may not catch butt hurt over your shows.
And while more cam girls are single than involved, it takes a special kind of dynamic to be in a relationship and keep it intact. If you’re significant other knows everything about your job and not only accepts it but does their very best to help you, support you and be your right hand fucking man…hold on to that mother fucker. They are a rare, rare breed.
A lot of guys will SAY they would totally be okay with their lady friend shoving toys in her holes in a public chat room. However, more often than not, they would end up being total dicks about it.(Sorry guys..just telling it like it is) Women are over sexualized on a daily basis as it is. So imagine sitting in a chat room with a bunch of horny dudes who are expecting to be entertained no matter your mood, or feelings or what you may be going through and then after you are judged, belittled and harrassed for 3 hours you get to have the same exact shit happen to you all over again except the person making you feel those things is someone you’re dating. How much would THAT suck??
So, yeah… if you’re single and thinking about hooking up and falling in love while you’re camming professionally, make sure you are open and honest and pick a person who thinks you’re the shit and who isn’t a jerk. And if you’re already in one, congrats one finding a person who isn’t a gigantic bag of dicks and keep that shit up!!