I could write a shit ton of stuff about myself in this box but I’m old school in that I believe actions speak much louder than words. I want to say I’m a free spirit who loves life but the truth of the matter is that for a very large portion of my existence, I was anything BUT free. It took a really long time for me to not only be okay with myself, but to love myself. And that’s where I am today. Completely smitten. I know not everyone who meets me will agree with me or like me as much as I like myself, but the amazing part of my 42 year journey is that I don’t give a fuck if they do or they don’t.
I’m a mother, daughter, sister, friend, swinger and polyamorous slutcookie.
I’m also an outspoken hot mess and I am completely okay with this.
I’ve been in the sex industry on and off since I was 18 years old. I’ve been everything from a stripper to a phone sex operator to an outcall dominatrix. I won’t lie and say I feel comfortable doing these things, because I don’t know if I will EVER really feel that way 100%. However, I will admit that I know my limits and my skill set and when it comes sex and selling myself…I know my shit. I am loud, silly, obnoxious, colorful and often times in your face with my delivery. I spent a great deal of my life scared to have an opinion and now I wear them all on my chest loud and proud because life is short and I refuse to spend the second half of my existence holding my tongue or being afraid to speak my mind.
I decided to do this blog and subsequent podcast because not only am I an egomaniac who loves the sound of her own voice…but because I feel oh so passionate about this industry and want to shine a light on some of the dark crevices not a lot of people on the outside would ever get to see. I’m pro woman and pro sex worker 110%. And want this page and everything I do to reflect that.
So, pull up a chair. Get to know me and some of my amazing coworkers and friends, (because some of these bitches are SPECTACULAR), and hopefully I’ll not only educate you a little on the ins and outs of this business but will make you laugh a little as well.
Thanks for coming, have a great day and OPEN ASS BB.